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Keeping it in the Family  

Group photo of the Goncuoglu siblings x320Seton Hall is an expansive community of students, faculty, administrators, and alumni who are united by a sense of Pirate Pride. But within the larger community, there are families who have passed down the Seton Hall tradition and found a home at the Hall. Hailing all the way from Istanbul, Turkey, the Goncuoglu siblings: Meliksah, Afra, and Berire, wouldn't have it any other way.

Diplomacy and Economics major, Meliksah Goncuoglu.The oldest Pirate in the family is Meliksah Goncuoglu, who graduated from Seton Hall in 2017 with his Bachelor's degree. During his time as a student, he double-majored in Diplomacy and International Relations and Economics. He chose Seton Hall based on its location as well as the overall quality of the international relations program at the Diplomacy school. He recalls, "I wanted to be close to New York City and experience a campus life at the same time. Seton Hall offered me this unique combination." In addition to the University's geographic location and campus environment, Meliksah says his final decision was strongly influenced by the University scholarship opportunities that allowed him to build an affordable college experience.

When asked how he selected his course of study, he highlights his belief that "Everything in the world has an order, even the world itself. In order to understand and play the game right, you have to learn the rules." As a student, Meliksah gratefully recalls that he was not only able to obtain an in-depth understanding of the interplay between economics and international affairs in the classroom, but he also got to go behind the scenes at the United Nations and engage directly with distinguished guest speakers that prepared him for life after college.

Currently, Meliksah is putting his training to work at a non-profit organization in Washington, D.C., that focuses on bilateral U.S.-Turkey relations. As he looks to the future, he says he aspires to become the president of just such an organization, and perhaps establish his own consulting company where he can play a more active role in fostering partnership between the two countries. He has found that diplomacy continues to guide him in both his professional and personal life. As he told his siblings then, and shares with others now, "For anyone looking to have a great campus experience and be close to one of the best cities on Earth, Seton Hall is the school for you."

Headshot of Afra Goncuoglu.Inspired by this encouragement and tales of her older brother's experience at Seton Hall, middle child Afra Goncuoglu, decided to pursue her own double-major in both Diplomacy and International Relations and Economics, and expects to graduate in 2020. For Afra, attending Seton Hall was a win-win-win, she could share the campus with Meliksah, have great access to New York City, and apply her classroom experience through an internship at the United Nations. Afra recalls, "Ever since I started participating in Model United Nations in high school, I have always wanted to work at the UN. When my brother did the UN summer program with the diplomacy school, he told me about his experiences, and I made my decision to apply early decision to Seton Hall." Since becoming a Pirate, Afra has seized the opportunity to work with the UN Commission on the Status of Women and cites being an intern at the Tinker Institute on International Law and Organizations, something that aligns with her broader career goals, as one of her most memorable experiences thus far.

On a daily basis, she says the community feel of the campus affirms her decision to come to Seton Hall. "Another factor that made me choose Seton Hall is that it provides a close-knit environment where you actually get to meet and know a wide array of people across campus. It is very rare that you do not recognize anyone when you are going to class or passing under Xavier Residence Hall."

Prior to her brother joining Seton Hall, she admits that she did not know focusing her studies on diplomacy could be an option. "In Turkey," Afra says, "you can't major in diplomacy, it's either political science or international relations. This is the reason why, even now, when I tell people in Turkey what my major is their response is either 'Oh, so you are studying politics,' or 'Are you are going to be a diplomat?'" In response, Afra now feels confident sharing that diplomacy is the tool she seeks to apply across all stages of her international career, and she couldn't imagine a better fit.

What has continued to make her Seton Hall experience memorable is sharing the journey with her siblings and the friends she's made by being involved in Greek life student organizations on campus, specifically the Undergraduate Diplomacy Student Association where she currently is serving as the Vice-President of Finance. After completing her bachelor's degree, Afra plans to continue her studies through the master's program in the School of Diplomacy or attend law school to study international law. Eventually, she hopes to achieve her goal of working at the United Nations.

Headshot of Berire Goncuoglu.Following in her siblings' footsteps, Berire Goncuoglu, the youngest of the three siblings, is currently a freshman in the Stillman School of Business and shares an interest in economics with her family. She is majoring in Economics and Finance with a focus on Supply Chain Management. "I have always wanted to study business, and to run my own business one day, so, when I learned that Seton Hall had a reputation for a great business program, I knew that it was a good fit for me – personally and professionally – as well."

With her brother as a new alumnus and her sister as a current student, Berire says Seton Hall seemed like a natural home. Along the way, since her parents still live in Turkey, Berire has truly appreciated that she can easily get advice and guidance on making the most of the Seton Hall experience from her Pirate siblings. Academics aside, she says that one of the most memorable experiences she's had since joining Seton Hall was going to her first Seton Hall basketball game and seeing the Pirates beat Georgetown! She is excited about the next three years and can already say that she feels herself growing and extending her comfort zones, managing her workload more efficiently and networking with potential mentors and employers. Following her graduation in 2022, she plans to join the workforce while pursuing a master's degree in long-term, she has her sights set on an analyst position at Goldman Sachs.

The Goncuoglu siblings will always have a special place in their minds, hearts and spirits for Seton Hall, but are quick to point out that their experiences are only possible because of the funding opportunities afforded to them. They remain hopeful that as they share their affection for Seton Hall, they will also be able to share it with new international students who would be great future additions to the Pirate family. This group of Pirate siblings are through and through #TrueBlue.

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